Relationships

Most people have felt the feeling that a past relationship could become a permanent, lasting one.  For most of us in this boat there really is hope for a second chance.   Many relationships have resulted from genuine attempts on the part of one or both of the partners wishing for another chance – a chance to get it right this time – to get ex back.  This happens quite often in organized society.   Some people believe that it’s just a past event that falls into the category of life-experience and let it go at that.  Others, especially those who were truly in love, want and hope that things could have been different or wish there was a way to rekindle that past relationship and get ex back.  Most dating and relationship experts agree that any relationship that ended on casual flaws – not assault or severe mental cruelty – can be rekindled, if the parties want to make it happen.

If you are in the category of having an ended relationship that is ‘fixable’ you should consider restarting it with an effort to get your ex back.   So how does one go about it?   Many relationship experts suggest a gradual process of establishing contact – even if just to say hello – followed by genuine shows of interest that are benign but reflect genuine interest.  These are typically followed by a relatively harmless request for a meeting over coffee or lunch.  The next step is a real date to see if there’s a real chance for a future.

What this article is all about is fast forwarding that traditional approach into one fell swoop and into the winner’s circle with a ‘my hero’ approach.  To do this, you’ll need some reason or excuse to use.   That means you need an event or special occasion to use as the springboard for your newly found interest in rekindling the past relationship.  What better way than a surprise party, get together, birthday party or holiday party.  It works better if it’s really harmless.   Try to make it something that is irresistible and won’t result in a ‘walk out’ if they’re less than thrilled about the overture.  Most people, even a jilted lost love, will at least give you the chance to follow through with it.  Having others present – especially past friends of the relationship – makes it tougher for your ex to walk out.  If you try this and genuinely attempt to make it real and enjoyable you will often find yourself on the smiling side of a rekindled relationship and a real chance to have your ex back.

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Perhaps the biggest dilemma that couples will ask themselves is when they ask “how to save a marriage.” The fact is, even though there is so much love at the start of the relationship, sometimes they don’t come out the way we want them to. The thing is it does not matter how much love there is from the start of the relationship but how much love and sacrifice you have given to the relationship, which makes you deserve the love you received. Relationships are always about give and take. Loving someone means that you will have to accept them for who they are, that means accepting their limitations and flaws.

Now, why am I lecturing you about what love is? It is because love allowed you to meet and it is love that can bring you back to each other. If the feeling is strong enough, nothing, not even the most negative feeling such as hate, can stop it from sprouting. The only thing that love cannot conquer is indifference. If you have lost all the care for your partner then everything else will fail to blossom.

So, how to save a marriage, stop your divorce and lead back yourselves into the love you once share? I know it may sound so impossible and at the same time hard but let us look at the situation is a logical perspective that you can manage and you will discover that it is easier than you though to stop your divorce; you just need some patience, a little more care and ofcourse love.

First, you do not have to grovel in front of someone you love. Do not beg for attention just as much as you do not have to beg for love. Realize that of you beg for love, you will only defeat the cause   of loving someone and letting them go when they have found their wings to fly again.

Second, stop showing him or her about your side of the coin. Arguing is the last thing you want to do if you want the relationship to work. Arguing whose side need to do what and what not will get you nowhere. Always think about what he or she feels. Do not mind your own hurt. Swallow your pride and only think about what your partner is going through. Remember a relationship is only between two and so it takes both party to make it work. It’s not about pride but rather about believing and doing what it takes to make things work.

Third, do not insist about your love nor impose your love into your partner. We all know that he or she already knows about your feelings and even without saying it, he or she appreciates it in what little way he or she can. It is just that sometimes we are blinded with our love that we want the same love to be given to us. So if your are serious about your relationship then please pay close attention to the above advice to save marriage and bring back the love and passion where it belongs.

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Let this be your warning! If you do any of these 5 dating sins after you have read this article, then don’t be surprised when your relationships goes bust. Take this advice and you may find yourself with the man of your dreams.

1. Having sex too early

You can’t plan on when to have sex for the first time, but if you jump right in bed on the first date, then you can almost be certain that you will be put in the ‘one night stand’ category right away. Men want to see all about you and take the time to appreciate it, but if you give him the option to sleep with you right away, then he is going to take it. Sex on the third date is an antiquated way of thinking, do it when it feels right, just not within an hour of meeting!

2. Divulging too much too soon

You want to share and listen and it’s easy to open up and let it all out, but try not to go overboard. Save some for later. A date is not meant to be a job interview, not the first, not the second, not ever! Try just to let it flow naturally and add some personal info here and there.

3. Texting too much

Men like to be hunters and that is not going to change anytime soon. With so many ways of communicating, it’s easy to send messages all the time, but it’s not a good idea. Let the man be the man and come for you, not the other way around.

4. Spying on him

Nobody should snoop around on another person’s personal email, phone or facebook. It may be tempting, but it is a really bad idea and it will hurt the trust between the two of you.

5. Simulated Orgasms

Absolutely no, nor just a small one. No! Actually it is only yourself that you are deceiving, because you get your date to think that he can satisfy you, based on false information. How should he know that it gives you any thing, the next time he tries the same trick? No, leave this spectacle to Meg Ryan, she does it best, and you would of course like to have a long life with your date and countless unsimulated orgasms.

The author writes articles about dating and netdating in Danish

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