Relationships

Many women dream of becoming the women men adore and never want to leave.  But just as many women go about it in the altogether wrong way and end up chasing away one guy after another.  What is the secret?  I’ll show you.

The main thing you have to do is totally change your way of thinking.  The world we live in has done a huge disservice to both men and women by creating unrealistic expectations of what men and women should be.

For example, throughout most of our history we have been taught that men are overly sexual and that they really only want sex .  We’ve been led to believe that if we give our man enough sex he’ll love us forever and never leave.  That is complete and utter nonsense !

Yes men like sex, but surprise, women do too ! Women have just as high of a sex drive as men but the difference is our society encourages men to indulge their sex drive while women are told that ‘good girls’ will wait until they’re married.  The result?  Men judge their ‘manliness’ on the number of conquests they make and women are frustrated and angry that they are forced to put their needs on hold .

So if you want the man in your life to be happy you need to get over the idea that he wants sex all the time or that he must have it more than you.  Men and women really aren’t very different in what they want and need from a relationship.  One word best describes what they want: connection.

As human beings we all have the need to feel connected to others.  If you can never forget that and base your relationship on that fact, you will have a excellent chance of making your man love you forever.

These connections can be made emotionally, spiritually, and sexually.  The more of these types of connections you and your man have the more satisfying your relationship will be.  If you want to keep him in love with you stay in love with yourself.  Don’t get sidetracked and put all your desires on hold to accommodate your man .  Most men will be impressed by that in the short term but in the long run they’ll get bored .

After all, you have to remember who you were when you first got to know each other , he was attracted to who you were then so why would you change and become some boring, clingy person now? 

The women men adore and never want to leave know all of theses things.  She gives her man the connections he needs while keeping her own identity intact.  She doesn’t value his needs more than hers, but she lets him know that she is his biggest fan and loves and accepts him unconditionally. If you’ve lost your man and you want to get your ex back, then start making these ideas part of your life today.

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